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    Jul272009

    The End

    So starting this blog as a means to develop my chops and then finding myself in front of 1000+ a year later, reading a post to a bunch of you was quite a ride. And I think probably enough. A good happy ending.

    You guys made good on Andy Warhol's promise. Thank you so much.

    This blog will self destruct as soon as I copy all the posts I want to keep.

    It's over. I quit. It's a calm day with no Wind. ~bhj

    Reader Comments (212)

    Ya can't go! All the plants are gonna die!!

    July 27, 2009 at 7:59 AM | Unregistered Commenterphenom

    I just found you...and will miss you. :(

    July 27, 2009 at 8:01 AM | Unregistered CommenterIrreverent Mommy

    And develop your chops you have. Will miss it. Good luck with whatever endeavors you are pursuing next!

    July 27, 2009 at 8:02 AM | Unregistered CommenterCorina - Down to Earth Mama

    Awww, man.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:02 AM | Unregistered CommenterBrian

    What?

    July 27, 2009 at 8:03 AM | Unregistered CommenterOHmommy

    i'm hoping you're a liar liar pants on fire

    July 27, 2009 at 8:04 AM | Unregistered CommenterAngie [A Whole Lot of Nothing]

    This is weird. Over the weekend, in the midst of my ferocious ongoing panic attack, I entertained (pretty frequently) the thought of going home and deleting my blog.

    I haven't fully disregarded that idea.

    So seeing you cast away yours is kind of scary. You've been a beacon for me many, many times. Not always in obvious ways. Sometimes just by making me smile or cry.

    Thank you for waving to me this weekend and briefly dragging me out of a bad headspace. I loved seeing you and listening to you read.

    I love this blog and I am sad to see you retire it but I absolutely believe that you have more to share and I look forward to finding out where to read your words when they're ready.

    Much love, homie.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:04 AM | Unregistered CommenterMommy Melee

    well, this blows. Your reading @ BlogHer was my first BlackHockeyJesus experience.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:05 AM | Unregistered Commentersarah

    Is this a for real retirement or one of those fake Jay-Z retirements?

    July 27, 2009 at 8:05 AM | Unregistered CommenterThe Holmes

    Hey, this isn't funny....

    July 27, 2009 at 8:05 AM | Unregistered CommenterJanna Bee

    "Oh, no. Please don't go. We'll eat you up, we love you so."

    You are the King of the Wild Things. You'll be missed.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:07 AM | Unregistered CommenterMegan

    I won't lie. I'm sad about this, but I respect your decision.

    THANK YOU!

    July 27, 2009 at 8:11 AM | Unregistered CommenterSomeday_phd

    April Fools?

    Please email me.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:12 AM | Unregistered Commentermaggie, dammit

    Noooooooo!!!!!

    But if you must, you must. I get it.

    And I'm so glad I got to meet you, and to see you read an example of your brilliance, live. What a way to close.

    Best to you BHJ. I will certainly miss this place, and you.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:12 AM | Unregistered CommenterKaren MEG

    While this makes me a little sad, I can understand. Really enjoyed talking with you last weekend, and I look forward to seeing your ass again next week!

    Maybe you can do guest posts here and there, right?

    Regardless, I promise to buy multiple copies of anything in print containing your words. I don't think I'll be alone in such action, either.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:15 AM | Unregistered CommenterFather Muskrat

    Oh no! Just found you as well, going to have to read a lot tonight! Any idea of when you'll drop the bomb?

    July 27, 2009 at 8:16 AM | Unregistered CommenterLee

    You'll be back. Maybe not in blog form, but you'll be back, damn you. And whatever you put out, I will buy and consume with the voracity of a wolf. A voracious wolf, obviously.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:18 AM | Unregistered Commenterpalinode

    what. the. fuck?

    what am I missing?

    July 27, 2009 at 8:18 AM | Unregistered CommenterJozet at Halushki

    "5" was my favorite. I wish I'd gone this year to meet you and hear it read.

    Sorta hoping this post is a little trick...Although, that would be really mean.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:18 AM | Unregistered CommenterAmy

    Oh no. I hope you change your mind.

    If not, good luck! I'll miss this blog tremendously.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:19 AM | Unregistered Commenterblissfully caffeinated

    What???? Well this sucks.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:20 AM | Unregistered CommenterCarolyn

    I just found your blog too. Sorry to see you put it to rest!

    July 27, 2009 at 8:21 AM | Unregistered Commentermom2nji

    I just found you too. Dang, not cool!

    July 27, 2009 at 8:21 AM | Unregistered CommenterDevilsHeaven

    Wellllll....shoot.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:21 AM | Unregistered CommenterTootsie Farklepants

    Glad I got to meet you, even if I totally weirded you out. Let us know when someone is wise enough to publish your stuff.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:21 AM | Unregistered CommenterMiddle Aged Woman

    You have not thought this through, BHJ. Take down this post and let the dust settle. Sewiously.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:22 AM | Unregistered CommenterBabyonBored

    No fucking way. Really??? WHY? Whywhywhy. You better be writing a book, that's all I have to say. Well, that and I'm going to miss you like crazy. Godspeed, or whatever people say in this sort of instance.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:22 AM | Unregistered CommenterPetunia Face

    Good Luck. Don't kill Lucy.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:23 AM | Unregistered CommenterWindy Days

    The true pros always go out on top.

    Unless, of course, this is a last gasp attempt to get dooce's attention.

    Peace,

    Kevin.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:24 AM | Unregistered CommenterAlways Home and Uncool

    Say it ain't so!

    Sad to see you go, but I know we'll see you around. Your brilliance is pervasive.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:24 AM | Unregistered Commenterjustshireen

    ...well isn't that just sucky!
    Best wishes in your next endeavor!

    July 27, 2009 at 8:30 AM | Unregistered CommenterDivaeva

    but...but...some of us just found you! :(

    July 27, 2009 at 8:30 AM | Unregistered CommenterKristi Nommensen Dorson

    Didn't realize you'd unmasked yourself at BlogHer by doing a reading. I've enjoyed reading your blog. Some of the posts felt like riding a rocket and then breaking through the atmosphere to glimpse the stars. Thank you.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:31 AM | Unregistered CommenterTricia McWhorter

    You'll be missed. I hope you'll reappear somewhere else soon.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:32 AM | Unregistered Commenternot undecided

    <p>You can swear and say v all you want but the truth is you're a class act and have been from start to finish.</p><p>I have nothing but admiration for you and it was an honor to share your stage.</p>

    July 27, 2009 at 8:33 AM | Unregistered CommenterDon Mills Diva

    Good run, Jon.

    Hope I'll still see you in my comments section sporadically at two ay emm.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:36 AM | Unregistered CommenterJett

    I will miss you so. I never commented, but always read.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:40 AM | Unregistered CommenterCarmen

    This bums me out, but I get it. I'm a big fan, so please give a heads-up if a rebirth takes place. You'll be missed.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:40 AM | Unregistered CommenterAngela

    Noooooooooooooooooooooooo!

    July 27, 2009 at 8:42 AM | Unregistered CommenterKathy

    may the force be with you.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:46 AM | Unregistered CommenterVodka Mom

    this seriously has me fucked. not sure what to say, but i've so enjoyed everything. i hope to see you again somewhere & am sure that i will.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:48 AM | Unregistered Commentermommymae

    You've had a heck of a run. I'm sad to see you go but I wish you nothing but the best and all the happiness in the world. Unless this is a joke. Then I wish occasional minor inconveniences and a daughter who steals peanut butter cups.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:49 AM | Unregistered CommenterJen

    awwwww. Just....awwwwwwwww.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:49 AM | Unregistered CommenterAbandoning Eden

    Well... I'm just sad.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:49 AM | Unregistered Commenterpam

    I said in my first panel at BlogHer that a lot of people shut down their blogs after BlogHer. After, quite a few expressed some skepticism as to whether or not I was pulling this out of my rear.

    It happens. For a lot of very different reasons. Usually very personal reasons.

    For instance, satisfaction. Gasp. ;) One of my favorite reasons, by the way.

    If you go, it was nice to meet you.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:52 AM | Unregistered CommenterVelveteen Mind Megan

    This sucks. You're joking, right? Right? You are an awesome, awesome writer. So glad I got to hear you read in person.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:52 AM | Unregistered Commenterwherewiller

    Well...dang...and, umm...you're joking, right? Right?? Tell me this is some horrible gag, a kind of blogging frat rush thing before you let us all in on some earth shattering secret...

    If you're serious, well...you'll be missed. And dang, again.

    Shade and Sweetwater,
    K

    July 27, 2009 at 8:53 AM | Unregistered CommenterKyddryn

    Bummer. You're one of those bloggers that makes me want to take more risks as a writer - and I've been writing for a living since the days when I was a young chippy, listening to BDP in my ugly gold Mercury Topaz. I do not comment much or know you well, but please know that I'll miss your writing voice.

    Good luck. I hope this means you're taking on something new that will be publicly available at some point.

    Peace out.

    July 27, 2009 at 8:55 AM | Unregistered CommenterTZT

    I'm really going to miss you. Wish I could have heard you read at Blogher. Hope that isn't what made the end of blog-dom loom so forcefully. You are a terrific writer; inspirational and amazing.

    Best to you BHJ!

    July 27, 2009 at 8:56 AM | Unregistered CommenterKate

    My head hurts now. And my heart. I truly enjoyed reading your blog, BHJ. I wish you'd reconsider. :(

    July 27, 2009 at 8:58 AM | Unregistered CommenterLynn @ Walking With Scissors

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